Making Sexual Fantasies a Reality

Mens Issues

There are some sexual fantasies which are extremely unlikely to become reality for most men. Yes, a man may fantasize about having steamy, lusty sex with their favorite Hollywood (or Bollywood or Aussiewood, etc.) star, but for most men, such desires are aiming a bit too high. However, provided he practices good penis health, there’s ample reason to believe a man can move any number of sexual fantasies off the wish list and into the realm of reality. It just takes a little determination and some guts.

Following are a number of common sexual fantasies along with some tips on making them realities. For most of these, the assumption is that the man is not in a relationship with a partner who is willing to go along with these fantasies. (For those with potentially willing partners, the bigger challenge is often working up the nerve to broach the subject with them in the first place.)

– Having sex with an unseen partner. How many guys have fantasized about being sexually served by someone whom they can’t even see? For many, this is high on the hot sexual fantasies list. Yet it’s one of the more easily accomplished. Many adult bookstores and similar establishment have booths with “gloryholes” through which one may slip an erect penis and have it serviced by whoever lurks in the next booth. And many hook-up apps allow a person to be similarly serviced at a person’s home while blindfolded. However, and these are big caveats, one must be aware that random servicing at a gloryhole or by a stranger increases the risk of sexually-transmitted infections (STIs) significantly, and that hook-up arrangements have been known to lead to a person being robbed or worse. A man needs to weigh these risks before acting on this or any other risky fantasies.

– Becoming a mile-higher. Having sex while in a plane flying high in the sky sounds very exciting. Unfortunately, airplane bathrooms are notoriously cramped and airplane seats make partner-based sex difficult – and again, risky. A compromise? Masturbate in the bathroom. It’s a legitimate form of sex, and if asked for details, just smile enigmatically and say a gentleman doesn’t discuss.

– Getting tied up. More and more, people are becoming both more open about their own kinks and more accepting of kinks in others. Online hook-up sites often feature a variety of people who freely acknowledge their interest in and/or experience with bondage and other fetishes. So meet a potential partner for a drink and see if it feels safe to move on into kink. Big tip: Don’t engage in any bondage activities without both agreeing to a “safe” word to stop the action. Also, don’t go beyond the comfort zone. If a man doesn’t feel he wants both arms tied to a bed post, he has the right to have his wishes respected.

– Trying a threesome. Again, people are more open about multiple partner activities nowadays. A little exploration and asking of appropriate questions online (and at a follow-up meeting) can help a guy decide if he and other potential members of a threesome are compatible. The biggest thing for a man to decide in advance is, “Am I okay with a threesome with two males or only with two females?”

It will be less stressful making sexual fantasies into a reality if a man sports a healthy looking penis, so daily application of a top notch penis health oil (health professionals recommend Man 1 Man Oil , which is clinically proven mild and safe for skin) can be a boon. He will want the penis to get all the nutrients possible, so he should select an oil with a range of vitamins, including A, B5, C, D and E. Also key: an oil with a powerful antioxidant (like alpha lipoic acid) to fight free radicals and prevent oxidative damage.